Thursday, April 05, 2007

Not seeing the point.

Haiz, not seeing the point in doing some stuff.

Oh yeah, I just received this student card for watching movies at 9.50. Woohoo....so happy, but then I realized, there's no fun in watching romance comedies with guys. Rarely guys will appreciate romance comedies, even if they do, they rather go with a girl than go with another dude of the same sex, apart from the queer blokes. Some guys need love to carry on. Not sex.

(Oh...I really missed the times I spent during my attachment with Keddrick, my drag queen buddy. Just to note, I don't condone transsexuals or queers.)

Passiveness is the key to success? I don't know. Maybe in projects or partnerships where your party has the upper hand maybe. But then in a relationship or something in a wooing phase. Its not the case. Being too passive has its bad points too. A guy won't know whether is he wasting his time wooing you if there is no erm, feedback. In a relationship, yeah, some guys may get tired with the relationship if it becomes really stale. What do I mean by stale? It simply means that when your partner gives in to everything you want, no questions asked. One day he/she will get so bored as compared to the initial excitement when the feelings started to bloom...then, Poof.
The Love Bubble is gone.

Pursuing a long distance relationship is another funny bubble. Everyone thinks, aiyah, a long distance relationship is a sure failure, you don't get to see each other here and there, you don't know what the other half is doing there, is he/she been faithful? He/She might be having it off with others now that you aren't by her side.

But I don't agree. A relationship is based on trust. We need to trust each other to keep the relationship going. Even if you don't believe that you are good enough for him/her, you gotta know hows life like overseas without a single kin. And somewhere in his/her heart, you are the closest kin he/she has. He/she has shared stuff with you that she wouldn't share with his/her parents, siblings and friends. You two share a special bond. And once there's a friction in it, don't make haste and start to pull it in, both ends will break. Instead, move your feet a bit, till the frictions' gone, and you are closer to each other, and then you will realized that standing by each other isn't so hard after all. In fact, its so much easier than pulling your other half towards you.

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